Be insanely free psychologically so that you can be love, but do not call your fear-insecurity your "I" and your arrangements to guard and sustain this "I" (however it might seek continuity) love. 
Unless you're insanely free of your"self" and seeking nothing, you'll not know love.
As long as you are interacting with another as the "other", looking at them through the thick lens of your ideas and images etc and the expectations they create and comparing them against some idea you think they must live up to, you don't love.
All the love, truth, and beauty just mean the absence of "I". 
The most sacred, the most innate has nothing to do with what you "think" or in what box of your own making you might want to fit it. 
Have no images of yourself, recruit no one to guard them. 
Be insanely free to know the sacred.