All that you are or do is a product of conditioning. in both the most mundane sense and the seemingly extraordinary, or however you fragment and label it.
This should be enough reason for you to not take your"self" (which itself is/a product of thought-conditioning) seriously and enough not to go around imposing any ideals on "others".
Always remember—
There is nothing like a free thought. There is nothing like an original thought.
Any and all Thought is the beginning of what one might call bondage or not free a.k.a. beginning of conditioning.