Silly to confuse the egoic insecurities and fears and the resulting pursuit and chase of or from someone for "love". Sillier if you want to make someone you love go through this. Just another egoic affair. So far removed from love.It's not worth it.
Love is secure and therefore effortless even as it makes the effort, for it has no problem climbing and overcoming mountains of the ego (the false self) for the beloved. Radiant with Clarity. Truth. Integrity. Involvement. And all the efforts are in service of it, not a means to shy away from it.
I want to fall until only you remain.
I want to fall until not just me but everyone sees only you when they look at me.
In other words, I am here with you. Fully.
In other words, presence.