Another trap is to keep the feedback loop open,
"new ideas"
"new trends"
"new technology"
even "new person/child/relationship" in this century as we have come to treat everything unseriously and disposably.
"new this, better that"
To think that things are "new", "different", "better" and that if you don't actively pursue them you will be left behind or become uncool is a story/delusion.
A seeming of something happening, something that will finally satisfy our senses.
Well that's how the story keeps itself going through its self-perpetuating mechanism when presence is absent.
You can, in the relative context, know anything you want anytime you want and yet you don't *have to*. You can just stop it! It is *allowed*.
When we stop running after anything at all is when we begin to develop samadṛṣṭi (unbiased and meditative view). is when we begin to do things meaningfully. is when we can go all in and truly commit. is when we make it sacred.